tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26181705.post114735583176007491..comments2023-10-12T06:29:13.317-06:00Comments on Beck: THEORETICALLY GAYBeckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06159223254071653666noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26181705.post-1147469407565915212006-05-12T15:30:00.000-06:002006-05-12T15:30:00.000-06:00You couldn't be more gay. You need to stop questi...You couldn't be more gay. You need to stop questioning that, no mater how anxious the prospect of being truly gay makes you. Once you finally accept and embrace that fact, a big emotional burden will be lifted from your shoulders.<BR/><BR/>You have a huge unfulfilled sexual need that has to be met. This is perfectly natural and in keeping with who you <I>are</I>.<BR/><BR/>But the fact that you're married makes things complicated, more complicated than your religious beliefs make things, in my opinion.<BR/><BR/>Your going into trances during meetings with clients is a sign, I believe, that you need to take some sort of action soon, before you do something you'll regeret. Some others in your position have given in to temptation and made an inappropriate move toward an employee or had anonymous sex with someone in a public restroom. <BR/> <BR/>In the best of all worlds, you could tell your wife that you have sexual needs that have to be met or else you'll go crazy. She'd reply, "OK, go get it out of your system and let's see how you feel afterward." Not likely to happen that way, though.<BR/><BR/>I think that if and when you do have sex with a man or men, your long unmet desires will be largely satisfied, at least to the extent that you won't be in a constant state of lust. <BR/><BR/>Again: Get yourself to a therapist to work through this.David Walterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16961185167489984607noreply@blogger.com